Thursday, January 22, 2009

Looking For Time Manage Mentor...

its almost time for chinese new year 2009,but i ain't go get new cloth,pants,hair cut...so it mean new year,but same old me...but luckily,last time while i day off at kl...get myself a short pants,my girlfriend bought me cloth and a shoe...but all these not the main issue of my failure time manage...

my work time is from 10 to 10 normally,so...my day time is totally working...i have my breakfast, launch,and sometimes dinner at my office...after work,most of the time i spend on gaming...and i finished 2 years times,i don't really like this kind of life...it feel like limited of time if 24 hours per day...i have within 7 hours times to sleep if i did not go for gaming...

and one week ago,i moved to my new home...and its way far bit then my old home to my working place or my gaming cyber cafe...so,i have to get up earlier then day before these...and i will arrive home even late then before...i'm like very busy,my active time per day around 17 hours,but actually is it so busy?even myself can't make it clear...but i think mostly is wasted...if i have a better time management,i think this 17 hours should be very useful,right ?i ain't sit at home watch tv or lying on the bed sleeping...i just hope that i could remember everything that i should done everyday(sigh...i have a temporary lost memory syndrome,its not what doctor say...but i did always forget things,even just turn back...and i could forget what i have said before...)if i could have done everything according to the schedule,i thing my performance could be improve,but the problem is...i don't know where to start and what to do...or is it i'm to relying on someone or somethings ?i just can't get it right...

hopefully someone good on this could have give me some opinion,just a single one...or maybe a clue...pass by and drop me a message :D
bye then,have a nice day =P

6 comments:

William aka Duke said...

hi Bryan,
I don't know how far is the location is your new home.. or its a geographical area we do not know.. maybe you should IMAGINE being as an actor in any movies sequel.. STOP!!! Think back what is actually your aim and things you want to do and fulfill it before you DIE.. (I mean not mean you DEAD) but many people regret not planning his life and regret it if anything happens. You have many to do, how many hours left perday? Then make use of the HOURS just to fulfill something for a day! List all important things you want to do.. maybe plan get married and have children lol.. or have an aim. JUST ONE aim will do, because you seems to have many "Great" things you want to fulfill everyday and thats only a burden to yourself! I am sometimes working 12 hours also.. I have alot of missions in life, but I suddenly WIPE it all out of my mind. Well, Time is running out from us, we cant think of what is going to happen to us the next minute or second.. for me, the one mission is, try helping people in their problem, and eventually you get your problem FIX. Sometimes its a life-cycle. There is no time management MENTOR when even a MENTOR himself will ask for another Mentor's help! The Greatest Mentor is just OURSELVES, likes its saying, WE have to faced our greatest fear within us. Its not helpless in your situation, try something you have never done before. Make friends with people who can really help you solve your limited time. many will help because I always ask people help as I have helped many people before. (But I am still facing my own demons inside me), get a note book, and schedule your own time. Do not be greedy in life, the more you want, the more you loss it! Have you not asking your girlfriend? maybe she can help you a bit too :p
I will be welcome as always to help people who asked me, thats just me, and I learn some lessons in life. Or try calling The Befrienders.
Or asking someone yumcha and talk about it, if friends who acted like not helping you in progress (Just example) well, its a logic that dont waste your time asking more. Its a matter of share shared experiences.

Gambate Bryan.

William aka Duke said...

My mission lol.. build a company, shred with someone, can open and close shop anytime lol, or practice creating my own cooking recipes (cuz I like mixing salt and pepper and spices hehe), or finish a game in a day, or find a relationship (which is impossible in life) or practice using sign language or going to places I want to go (especially camping, hitch-hiking, bag packers, no need expensive trip, just BUDGET trip will do, travel from Malaysia to other country with limited money), involve in social services lol, help many more poor people, cleaning my bedroom (my bedroom so big.. sigh..), clean my OLD car (I didn't bought it at first place), walking 5KM - 10KM perday (like I used to do), so many things to do.. yet, my workings make it worst! so I just clean up my mind and do just one thing, cuz I frequently see people sad, and my mission temporary is MAKE PEOPLE SMILE. I really hate people with sad faces. (Except myself, cuz many dont know about me), yea wish to have more friends, hang out, movies be best friends.. I am getting nothing in life. What to do? So, Lewt It Be, and someday, there will be an answer! Still asking who wants me all the time, i mean friends. Life is as always: Work, work (Warcraft: PEONS)

Before Well Grown said...

wow bro...your back,its been while you did not online update your block already...i understand what you mean,because my job isn't that free...i'm always stay on my office,so...i looking for a time manage mentor to help me solve the problem,like get my work done according to schedule maybe,so could save up the time for repeating the job again and again(because o always forget things)i always feel the limited of time...so this job is causing me lot of trouble...i feel like been put into prison...what mostly people wanted to do should be a daytime activity isn't it ?but my daytime finished on my work...so what i'm thinking is...maybe a better time manage could help me save up lot of time,if there more free time while working,maybe i could find something that i really want to do that no need i go in person...like surf net,reading...learning something new maybe...so i need to learn,how to save time,do not waste...TIME MANAGE MENTOR!and your right,mentor does ask for others mentor help...but what i need is,his talent on that subject,the others that he/she not good in it...maybe i could help =P
i need someone to foxed ,y disadvantage...
~Byan~

Before Well Grown said...

the word (foxed) fixed* sorry...

Before Well Grown said...

and word (y) my* sorry...

William aka Duke said...

eeh, yes I am BACK for the time being..
not necessary to correct the English, somehow I am able to understand it.. besides, your English is average, but there's room to improve it. Headache... your sentence make me thought like you are facing a Deja Vu.. its a term meaning doing the same thing everyday and see the things again the next day and same thing you do yesterday lol.. forget things? same goes to myself... Well, real Men have to work.. We cant do many things because we must work in daytime, and I missed out alot.. while the REAL prison haven come to you yet, thats.. marriage! Time.. its easy to plan than practice! Well, what you want to learn? What you want to achieve? What is your aim in life? I am only good at Philosophies, well, I suggest you lay down and start thinking the 5 things you want to achieve in life. after you are satisfy with it and able to handle it at ease only add more spices in life, else you will end up not achieving anything at the end. There are many things you can do, well, we are the mentor for ourselves in time management. What I will do in daytime, I wish i can walk 10KM a day, i miss walking far distance alot. or go camping or go Hitch Hiking. and skill in time management? Simple, just minimize your daily task so that you can finish something daily, and you will be able to finished your aim without think so much to do 10 things at 1 time.
well, you can ask me anything, any topic, if I know any solution, I will be happy to guide you through.